Morning All.. okay several of you have asked about Thomas..he was an exchange student who came over for a year from Germany to do his senior year at an American high school..he graduated May and now has gone home..he did not want to go..he wants to join the marines..his parents made him go back but as soon as he turns 18 he says he will be back..I was not his Host parent, his host family lived on the next street over and he and my son became friends through school and have been pretty tight all year... needless to say we have some long faces around here... :-(
True beauty ( my daughter) is having boyfriend problems and I am at my wits end. I don't normally write about personal stuff here but I am going to blow if I don't get this off my chest..just called DH (stands for dickhead not dear hubby this morning!!)in Italy and he said "what do you want me to do about it from here" nothing I just wanted to talk..it's your daughter too dammit!! So here's the drama..BF of 4 years+ is on his way out.. I can tell my daughter does not want to be with him anymore, BUT he is not happy..he is controlling at the best of times and when Rachel was younger she put up with it now she has finally seen the light and he can't deal...she wanted to go out with friends last night and he was giving her a hard time.. told her she couldn't go..he was at work.. she finally told him she was going to bed..hung up phone and then left here with her work clothes to go to a "friends" she is 21 I don't tell her what to do but as long as she lives in my house I do expect to know where she is and if she is coming home etc.. so anyway..he shows up here. I had left the front door unlocked because my son didn't have his key..well son forgot to lock door after he went to bed so in waltzes BF...pissed as hell and looking for Rachel..paced all night I guess cuz was here when woke up.. we got into it.. i told him that Rachel can do as she pleases and the reason she spent the night out is she knew he would come here....I guess she is not answering his calls and he is soooooooooooooo mad.. she is supposed to work today and he told me to tell her he will go to her job... I am so pissed off with him..we have our own issues...but anyway to cut to the chase..he just left and i talked to Rachel and she is NOT going to work. I told her she can't hide forever and she needs to talk to him. I am afraid he is going to get her fired..she is supposed to work tomorrow too and if she doesn't talk to him today he will just go there tomorrow.. i am afraid he might do something to her... i have visions of him hitting her or worse.. I will kill that punk with my bare hands if he harms her..not to mention my son is all riled up and ready to kill him too...oi oi oi ..I can't take the damn drama people!!!! So that's my mess.. all i want to do today is watch England kick butt!!! Did I mention i have that picnic to go to which is at the same time footy is on...grrr!!! I am seriously thinking of dropping off my contributions and leaving....
I do have things to be grateful for though..
1. Spent the day with my friend Jen yesterday..
2..The sun is shining, no rain..great pool weather...
3...My beautiful family..with all their drama
4....Candles..my house smells yummy....
5.....All off you JLanders!!! :-)
11 comments:
Sounds like the ideal boyfriend...NOT.
I know it's a bit of a long shot, but could you not get an injuction taken out against him? Your daughter shouldn't live in fear of him, or be scared to go out for what he might do next. Really hope you get something sorted out.
Here's hoping you get to see Thomas again soon. Sounds like he enjoyed being over as much as you enjoyed having him!
Hope the picnic isn't too bad!
Big hugs,
I'm watching the game and as usual there isn't anyone to back up Rooney and they need to take Lampard off!!!! We need the robotic Crouchy up there with Rooney. Got to cover my eyes now and watch the game:-) Have a great picnic.
Vanda
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Good Lord. We want to stay out of the kids business but then this stuff happens. Can you call his parents and tell them to keep a tight leash on him and you will kill him if he hits her? This boy may need the police called. DH is a man, they have no idea how to deal with drama.
I am worried now so keep us updated and lock the doors!
LOVE YOU,lisa jo
Sweetheart, it's just this kind of guy who ends up killing girlfriends/wives etc. Please explain the seriousness of this to Rachel and talk with law enforcement folks as well about the situation. Tell Rachel to never, Never, NEVER see him alone and perhaps a restraining order will be necessary at some point. I am very worried about this guy. I love you my friend...and your family too. Be safe. Traci
Young love, so hard to deal with.
hugs,
Ellen
Sounds like a big mess. Everyone else gave good advice so, I'll just say ditto and stay safe!
Traci
He sounds like a nasty piece of work and could be dangerous especially as he drinks. I think you have to take this seriously and tell him yourself that if he causes any trouble you will involve the police. Your daughter could be scared of facing him.
Sorry you did not get to see England kick ass. We are gutted.
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Oh I am so pleased your lovely girl has seen sense ,good job she found out what he is capable off now rather than later ........Jan xx
such a pity we lost :( the football that is.............Jules xx
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Sorry to hear about your daughters problems.....better they get sorted out now though.
Extremely annoyed about the football........we should have had at least 1 goal.....grrrrrrrr......damn that Ronaldo....lol
Oh well only another 4 years to go :o)
Jayne
Gosh. .Lynn. . so much has been happening in your house. . why do pretty girls always get a control freak.I can understand your concern about her.Hes got a drink problem if it makes him aggressive. . keep your door locked.I love your "grateful for" things
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