Be careful what you wish for. Remember how much I kept saying I didn't want to go to that picnic? Well I didn't go BUT that's because I was dealing with the police. Yep most of you called it when you said the BF was going to be trouble.. he was. He got himself worked into a complete rage because he could not find Rachel and she would not talk to him..he called me several times and the last time he called he told me to tell her she couldn't hide forever and when he found her she was going to get it.. I told him if he laid a finger on her it would be the last thing he ever did to which he asked if I was threatening him.. I said no I am just saying if you touch my daughter then that will be your last breath.. he flips and says well how about I come over there and kill you and your whole family first...So I called the police and they got here before him.. he had his hands in his pockets when he got out the car so they pulled a gun on him..had him spread eagled in the driveway... it was horrid.. I could have had him arrested for aggravated assault for threatening to kill me but I was nice and let them just issue him with a trespassing warrant..he cannot come on our property for 2 years..if he does I call the cops and he immediately goes to jail... maybe I should have just had him arrested but i just couldn't do it.. call me a fool..but this kid may be a punk and i may not like him too much but he has been in our lives for 4 years and i kept thinking what if it was my Ryan acting like a fool over his girlfriend...i remember being that young and crazy jealous..so I gave him a second chance... I hope he uses it wisely because i will not hesitate to have him arrested if he shows up here ever again.. me and my daughter have some serious talking to do today too when she gets home from work..
Thanks for all your concerns.. I hope I have this taken care of.. yesterday sucked... on top of it all England lost... :-(
have a good evening....
L
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Oh my goodness. Wow, what does one say? Yikes!???
Have you thought about getting a restraining order against him as well? I know it's "just a piece of paper" but it'd at least be one more thing to keep him away from you and your daughter.
I pray this boy uses his 2nd chance wisely as well and realizes just how crazy he's been behaving and finds happiness in his life.
Oh bless your heart ,but you did exactly the right thing calling the police ,lets hope he learns from the chance you have given him..I wonder if he would have behaved this way if your husband had been there !........Jan xx
I second the motion for a restraining order. He doesn't sound very stable. Too many statistics and you don't want your daughter to be one of them. I don't want to be a downer but it does happen. Wow. Wish your husband was home. Be careful.
Traci
OMG !! I am just glad you all are OK. I probably wouldnt have had him arrested
either, hopefully the whole thing scared him enough to straighted out.
hugs,
Ellen
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Oh i can not believe you are dealing with all this on your own! What did your DH say? I am SOOOOOOOO sorry this came down to this but you did the right thing...wow, i am concerned! I hope he goes away and stays away. Be safe, my friend.
XO lisa
Lyn, honey, this guy creeps me out big time. I hope you and Rach have had that talk by now. Please, please, please keep yourselves safe. I'm sorry you are dealing with all this...and with the big guy being gone it's got to be even more stressful. I hope you are right and he leaves you alone. I am scared though. I
'm sorry about England too! Daughter #2's best friend, Emmy, just returned from a year in England as an exchange student and she and all her friends are totally bummed about as well! Some of the expressions she came home with crack us up and then remind me of you! : )
thats awful, I can't imagine the worry you went through. I am glad the police got there quick though. In the UK they would have arrived about 6 hours after you called..........Jules xxx
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Lyn how awful for you having to deal with this on your own ~ I hope re realizes how lucky he has been you not having him arrested ~ glad the police got to you quickly ~ and I hope he uses the second chance you have given him wisely ~ Take care of yourself ~ Ally
What a scary thing to have to deal with on your own. How did dh take the news? You're too nice a person Lyn, others wouldn't have given that rat-bag a second chance the way you did. Let's hope that's an end to it.
Big hugs,
I hope the boyfriend will thank you for this.Sounds like too much to drink.Honestly,you lovely daughter would be better off out of this relationship.You dont need hassle like this.
Wow..it's all happening over at your house! It was really nice of you NOT to have him arrested, and you can't get more fair than giving him another chance. Let's just hope that he uses it wisely and calms himself down eh?
Lv Ste
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