Sunday Sunday..

First I want to address all the comments to my Heffer entry. You guys are something else. I appreciate all the compliments..and will take them like a lady  ;-) However...I did not post pics of myself just for you all to tell me I am not fat.. I am pretty etc etc.. I hate people who do that!!! I can't stand it when women complain about their weight when :

a. their not fat!!

b. They are just saying that so everyone will say "oh you're not fat you're skinny etc etc

Drives me nuts!! I have a couple of friends like that...they will  constantly comment on their appearance so some one will disagree with them and tell them how hot they are.. I do not BITE!! I ignore their comments ... I have had several guys tell me that women complaining about themselves is a big turn off..they would much rather have someone with a little confidence and a positive attitude than a total hottie who is always complaining... I think I fit the latter..  I am no major hottie but I am pretty happy with what I have, I try to have a good outlook and have been told I have a great personality..I will take that any day ...

I just wanted to get that off my chest. I really do not think I am a heffer. I just happen to be the heaviest person in my family and it isn't the only thing I want to be known for! I am the same person inside whether I am 85lbs or 185lbs! Just drives me nuts when it's ALWAYS the first thing out of everyone's mouth. 

Okay that's quite enough on that subject huh? ;-)

So I have been busy, so much going on..I cannot believe all the stuff that has happened. Remember I told you about one of friends having Prostate cancer? Now another friend in the group has been diagnosed with Uterine Cancer!! I am very close to her and I am devastated. My best friends wife (drama queen) is in hospital .. she had to have her appendix out..my other friends Mum went by ambulance to hospital after she fell in their home and was acting strange, she is now having all kind of tests run because she is delusional..they think she has something wrong with her Parathyroid. I tell you when it rains it pours.. I have been back and forth to the hospital every day and I am drained..in between all that I have been getting ready for the trip..I am almost done..have my trusty to do list right here and am working on it already..

I hope you all having a great weekend...

L

My gratefuls...

1. My health!

2.. A promise of rain today...I hope so..

3... I got to go to the used book store and stock up for the trip..

4....Sales!!! got some good bargains..picked up a couple of outfits..don't want to shop in UK..way too expensive!

5..... To do lists!