Good morning campers!!
Thanks for all the kind comments regarding my daughters Boxer..she is doing a little better....bless her heart...
As my Journal heading suggests I am taking a break from J Land..how long it will be I don't know but as I sat here this morning reading I got more and more discouraged..we are a fairly small community here but I would have to say that the majority of journals I read this morning have done little more than depress me.. I am not in any way shape or form disregarding anyone's problems or struggles..on the contrary... I am acknowledging them in a way.. I truly feel bad for everyone and there in lies the problem..it's all getting a bit much for me..it's like watching the news constantly..after awhile it effects the way you think...so much doom and gloom...by not watching it does not make the troubles go away but it does stop it from being on your mind constantly...in the real world I try not to let negative people and negative energy influence me..again I am not saying you guys are negative...it's just a negative feeling I am receiving..I fear all this will come out sounding wrong and I am struggling for the right words here....what I mean is I am left feeling dejected this morning...for every 5 entries I read this morning 3 of them were reporting negative things..whether it be another illness..a loss..a financial issue..a personal struggle..I just started to feel sad..low..depressed..and as I cannot change these things for everyone..how I wish I could but I can't..the only thing I can do is change how I let it effect me..if coming to J Land does not give me the pleasure it once did then maybe I need a break for a little while...I wish I had a magic wand and could wave it over this little community of ours and make all the bad stuff go away but I can't...I am sure some of you will take this entry wrong ..I cannot emphasize enough that I do not want any of you to stop writing about the things that are real to you...your journals are your own to write in as you wish...the bottom line is I am selfish I guess...I liked coming online reading a few blogs..connecting with a few good friends..having a good laugh or too and going about my day...these days I find myself worrying too much about all of you...thinking of how I can make things better...I knew I was in trouble this morning when I couldn't think of anything to say as I went to leave a comment...
I am rambling on here and I don't think I have expressed how I am feeling very well. but as I said you each have the absolute right to write about your problems..and I hope you don't stop..I hope writing helps you...but when I feel guilty for writing about my happy days because so many of you aren't then it's time to take a break...I just hope that you guys respect what I am saying and don't take it the wrong way...you know how easily that can be done..;-)
L
68 comments:
I understand what you're saying. It's hard to focus on positive things where you found yourself surrounded by negativity. However, I hope that you find comfort in knowing that perhaps your positive blogs make those that are going through such struggles and negative a bit happier or more motivated to change their own situation. I hope to see you back soon.
Best Wishes,
Gina
I know just what you are trying to say in the nicest possible way ,Sometimes you do leave with a feeling of doom and gloom I try so hard not to be a whinger lol Dont stay away too long, ...love Jan xx
Your journal is always upbeat and lifting so you will be missed by me and others, I am sure .......... hope to hear from you soon........... it is going to be a wonderful day here in Jaxs so enjoy your day............. hugs, Sherry
I understand completely .
You will be missed!! And I totally understand what you are saying!
Have a great week!
Jess
Oh Lyn. . I love your journal. . .dont go! I see what you are saying though and fully understand.Its the same with magazines and newspapers too.Well. . .I have really enjoyed getting to know you and your family and your lifestlye in Florida and wish you all the very ,very best.
I understand. You will be missed love Vicky :)
I'm sorry your are feeling like that today and I certainly hope my entry didn't depress you. I try to give everyone something good to think about as they start their day. You are right to take a break and not let things drag you down. I've spent the better part of my life looking for the bright side of things and something to get me going in the right direction each day. I do hope you can do the same.
Take care and know I wish you only SUNSHINE and SMILES. 'On Ya' - ma
Lyn- you should not feel guilty at all about writing upbeat entries when your days are good! yes, many have things going on right now, but many are also in positive periods of their lives, and those are always fun to read. my entries, few as they are, tend to be both. sometimes i tell a positive, life is good story...sometimes i tell about something crappy that happened. i hope you don't stay away too long.....i will miss your "good morning, campers!" and happy entries, but i totally understand needing to surround yourself with the positive in life right now :)
~Cathy
and btw- your entry was very clear in your caring for others in j-land :)
HI Lyn, I know what you mean. I love to read, but there is only so much I can take. Same with the NEWS on TV...I have to turn it off at times. I wears me down. When it comes to reading Journals, I sometimes, take a break from certian journals, and pop in when I feel like it, but only occasionally. I truly feel for paeoples pain and suffering...but, don't we see that a lot working in the medical profession?
I said "HI to the Brits" for you yesterday when I complemented Dennis on what a terrific job he did painting the mural. He laughed when I told him I actually posted pictures online!
Which brings us full circle, I guess. You reminded me tha tthe reason I started my journal was to tell stories and photos. AND yes, be positive...We live in a good place, have tons of freinds, and have visited many interesting places. Life is good...yep, we are on this side of the grass and breathe in & out every day : )
luv ya hunny...come back soon, Bethe
((((((((((((((((((HUGSTOYOU))))))))))))))))))))I am sorry your feeling this way,I know my own Journal hasnt been very posative,how can I be posative when I am dealing with alot of pain.But I do understand how you feel.I care about you and I hope you take this time and come back when your ready.I am glad your Daughter is feeling better.
Totally understandable! I try to stay as upbeat as I can in my journal only because going back and reading I like to "feel" better reading about happy days. If that makes any sense. The one reason I enjoyed your journal is because you had so many happy days...and I liked that. I hope you enjoy your break and please come back soon :) You will be missed!
Can understand your sentiments, Lyn, you can't take the world's woes on your shoulders all the time. Have a good Sunday
Guido
http://journals.aol.co.uk/pharmolo/NorthernTrip/
Well, if you are letting other people's problems get you down, maybe you should take a break. I read about them all day long but it doesn't effect me in that way. Of course I have cried over some of the things I have read, I pray for everyone but I don't dwell on it. Take your break and come back when you can. (((HUGS))) Will miss you lots! -Missy http://journals.aol.com/ma24179/MISSYZSTUFF
I understand completely my friend.... completely! I know I for one have posted no content except bad things of late and feel horrible about it... but I then try and post tags to make up for it...... not good enough I know. I won't stop, 'cuz I know that is not what you meant but I do hope you'll pop in once in awhile.. you'll be missed
love ya
d
Awwwwwww Lyn, I will miss you , but I hope you come back and will continue to journal, Love You Lisa
God Bless....and don't stay away too long....hugs...Ora
I certainly never took anything the wrong way. I think you are doing the right thing. If something spills over in a negative way Into our real life and makes us start to go down, then we have to take a breather. I am the world's biggest worry worm and find myself thinking about loads of you lovelies out there at bizarre times of the day and night but I am okay. If I wasn't, then I would take time out aswell. So you have until friday! lol. Don't be away too long tho, You give the gift of laughter and that Is rather special. If ever you need a chat, fire me over an email. Love Pam xx
I TOTALLY understand, believe me!!!! Pop over to my journal anytime you want an uplift, I don't have an exciting life, but I only write about what's GOOD in my life just to be different.... = )
Joann
Will miss you! Hurry back soon.....
Glad your daughter feels abit better, that was a horrible thing to happen. Dont be gone too long you will be badly missed. Louise xx
I totally understand, we all need a break from Jland from time to time...I have taken many myself in the past.
We will be awaiting your return...take care
Hugs
Terri
I understand how you feel wholeheartedly. I have been there and done that plenty of times. That is why I want to keep my journal positive, but life creeps up on you sometimes. Take a break but please don't forget about us. Luv ya! Have a happy Friday.
Allison
Lyn have a good break ~ will be thinking about you and hoping you won't be away too long ~ Ally x
Never feel guilty for writing about your good days. I understand about you taking a break, but I must tell you know, that I will have to email you and check on you once in a while.
Kelli
http://journals.aol.com/kamdghwmw/noonmom
You know, it is hard to concentrate on everyone else's bad situation when yours pyle up as well. I had one journal I used to read that every entry was 90% negative. I got so tired of it. How much bucking up can you do. Reallly, how can life always be that bad. Part of that bad is your responsibility. If you feel that way then maybe you are a major contributing factor in your woes. People don't look at themselves like that. I support whatever decision you make here and if you need time away do it. I can be difficult to keep up with it all at times. You just take care of yourself, you hear? Good.
Phil
Sorry to hear, but perfectly understood! Good luck Lyn!
Hugs,
Jen
yes these are very sad depressing times. come back soon! rose
that's part of the reason I'm taking a break. Not because of everyone else writing depressing things but that seems to be all I'M doing. Between my stuff and everyone else's stuff... well you know.
Taking a break has helped me a great deal so far. And when I come back I expect to be back more to my humorous side.
So I'm with ya and support you needing to do what you've gotta do... BUT I'M SURE GONNA MISS YOU!!! You and your happy life... :)
xo
MJ
I completely understand. I had to leave ICU nursing because I was so down all the time. It's a different thing...but the same premise. I'm sorry you are leaving. If I've contributed to it in any way....I'm sorry. I hope you will come back to visit soon. I will miss you.
Hugs and love,
Pam
Sorry you feel you need to leave. You will be missed.
Good luck!
((hugs))
Jeanne
Sorry to hear you're feeling low Lyn. I hope the sun shines through soon. Meanwhile, enjoy your break. Hope it isn't for too long.
Take care.
B. x
I think we've all, or most, have felt that way at one time or another. I prefer to read others' journals, rather than write in my own. I don't comment often, but I do read. Do what you have to do...for you! Take care...
xoxo ~Myra
Lyn,
I so understand. If you an empathetic person, which I know you are!, then I know that reading everyone elses hurts hurts you. You have to take care of yourself. I have cut down on who I read. Anyone who was posting more than once a day had to go for a while. I haven't the time! And others who were affecting my soul to the negative had to also.
Stop by once in a while. I'll miss you!
Traci
I completely understand. Right now I'm feeling low and it could very well be because of this reason. There is a lot of misery out there at the moment, and I try not to let things get me down but once my head starts thinking I can't stop it :(
I hope you will come back to us soon Lyn xx
Jenny
http://journals.aol.co.uk/Jmoqueen/MyLife
Amazingly, Lyn, you've written the exact kind of entry you refer to so well. A talent for voicing your feelings, that's a gift and you have it. Alot of folks here do, and appreciate that you recognize them I'm sure. I know I do, and will notice the void if you prolong your absence from these simple pages. But as needs must, care for yourself and hopefully, you'll hurry back. xoxo CATHY
Don't stay away too long. You'll be missed.
Misise
Oh! Lyn.....have only just got to know you, but understand.
I try not to write when I'm down, and don't write every Day.
My PC is playing up, and it has just taken me almost 3hrs to fix it and get online tonight (lol)
Loved your mostly 'upbeat' entries, and will miss you lots.
See you soon I hope!
Aileen....x
http://journals.aol.co.uk/haileen2003/wishing-and-hoping
Lyn, I imagine what you've written is something all of us have felt at one time or another. You just have the guts and honesty to put it to paper, LOL. Hey why would anyone get mad at you! I hope you won't be gone too long though and glad the D boxer is doing better! God Bless!
Oh sweetie.....I feel what your saying. I am so sorry that I wont be reading about your happenings. Hopefully this will be short term! You have a big heart! HUGS
I understand completely, and I wish you peace right now my friend, when you seem to need it most.
You are a true gem, will be missed by everyone, and welcomed back with open arms when you come back.
Pooh Hugs,
Linda
I totally understand. My own blog was depressing me lately! :) I did an entry today focusing on the joys in my life. :)
Your upbeat attitude and kind comments will be missed!
Hope you are back soon!!
Gillie
Oops...looks like I was logged in on my other e-mail below! :)
Gillie
You will be missed dear one. You offered a light with you lighthearted entries and enthusiasm for life. I do understand though. I've had a few breaks myself since starting my own journal. (Hugs) Indigo
I understand. Its hard to hear about everyone being so sad or something happening! I hope it gets better for everyone.
please come back soon
you will be missed
xo
emily
I guess journals are a bit like life with all the ups and downs that come along with it, and they can be depressing sometimes to read. I hope that you are feeling in a better place soon. (((hugs)))
Marie
http://journals.aol.co.uk/mariealicejoan/MariesMuses/
I get ya completely, i just wish i could add an entry on my journal but i cant get on it grrrrr!!!I was surprised i could even add comments today.anyhoo, write soon, when you feel inspired.take care, beckie x
I agree 100%.
Sometimes I don't know how to respond to some of the entries I read.
And someitmes, if they are too negative, I just don't keep them on my list.
Everybody has their ups and downs...but some people can really be depressing.
I like to think I have a fairly postive outlook and I am reasonably stable and happy.
Have a good break.
Look forward to hearing from you when you come back!
sunny
Hi Lyn,
Steven and I know EXACTLY what you mean and we have both taken a rest from J-Land for the same reason.
I hope you wont be away TOO long and that you feel better soon, we will miss you.
I will keep in touch by e-mail anyway.
Love to you and yours..
Pat x x
p.s. check my last entry for a smile...
Hi Lyn.. Lots of people are taking breaks.. :) I understand what you are saying. I may just take a break as well. Lately, it HAS been quite depressing... Take care sweetie, hugs - Julie
Anyone with a heart will know how you feel, though the problems of others are important you cannot let them rule your life. We all have problems some more serious than others and to add to them can only harm. I perfectly understand why you need to take a break and that it doesn't mean that you don't care infact the way you feels shows that maybe you care too much. Take care and I hope you come back soon, I may be a bit random in my journeys to jland but I do enjoy reading your journal when I am able to.
Debbie
xxxx
Don't stress yourself out. I think most of us think the very thing you are talking about sometimes.
I am going to make a conscious effort to make mine more light.
Enjoy the break.....
Angel
Girlfriend I totally understand where you are coming from ... I was sinking in a pit of doom and gloom myself not long ago and thinking it was my own health/pain and weight gain that was doing it to me ... NOPE, it was the company I was keeping and the endless drama and problems ... and the expectation that I had to participate in ALL ... by journal comment, email, IMs, text message, phone calls ... no matter what was going on in my life, or with my family, or with my health .... it became a full time job and one I hated ... and you can't help but let it effect your mood and leave you emotionally exhausted. If it all is getting to you of course you need to take a break ... and trust me, you aren't the first or the only who felt they had to step back from the insanity and start filling their day with friends who make you laugh and smile and don't suck the life from you but instead make you feel good about yourself or at the very least grateful for the blessings in your life which is a wonderful way to live. Speaking of which YOU are one of the blessings in all our lives in that you keep us laughing ... please don't go away for too long, you will be so missed!
Stacy
It'll grab a hold of you and that's when I say it's time to step back and breathe. We will miss your sunshine but will be here when you return. I'll leave the light on! Take care and enjoy your time away.
Katie
((((((Lyn))))) It's ok :) I understand, many of us understand. I will miss you so make sure and don't stay away forever 'k? Hugz, Teresa
Hey !!!!!
I was sorry to hear about your daughters Boxer. I am glad to hear that she is doing a little better though.
I have to say that since you will be taking a break from J-Land you will certainly be missed by many including myself. I am sorry to hear that your spirits are low. I have read many journals which have been sad but I have shared some sad news as well in mine. It can get hard sometimes to read journals that are sad and sometimes you have to take a break from reading the sad things just like watching the news on television.
I do hope that you will take the time to rest and not think about the depressing stuff so you can come back recharged and ready to tell us how you have been doing. Do take this time to recharge your spirit we will all be thinking about you and hoping you are doing well. Do take care and hang in there. We'll all be here when you get back.
All of us need to do this from time to time it seems. Or at least quite a few of us do. It can get to be just too much to handle after a while. Enjoy your break and pop in when you feel like it. We'll be happy to see you when you do! Please take care!
Lori
Never feel guilty about writing happy days...sometimes its those happy days of others that gets some of us through our own bad days. I know for my ownself that commenting just didnt feel the same while in my darkest moments but reading good days of others made me want more than ever to get up and just live. I remember stepping away from J-Land for over a year before coming back this time around. Sometimes you just have to do what you feel is right for you at the time. Know that you will be so missed in my journal and reading "Good morning campers" with each of your entries sometimes even when all I wanted to do was hide under the covers made me take a deep breathe and fight my way through the morning. Take all the time you need and I look forward to the day when I check my alerts and I see your back. Huggggggggsssssss!!!!!! Robin
I understand and I know that I am one of those negative ones....and I'm sorry to bring you down. I actually did a happy one today....the first in a long time...so there is hope I guess....June
I DO UNDERSTAND...I WILL MISS YOU WHILE YOU ARE AWAY....NO WORRIES
MICHELE
I always respect what others have to say. I also am a firm believer that if something is so negative, click the red x in the corner. There have been some journals that I have read that have been always negative. I stopped subscribing to them. Nobody forces us to read anything.
Often your feelings (the reader) of negativity bouncing off others journals is a reflection into your own deeper negativity with things going on in your life. So I think it's a good idea for you to take a break and take care of things in your life and if you want to come back to reading then enjoy. Maybe your just not ever going to be able to read through things like this. I wish you well, take care of yourself.
Pey
Hi,
it's ok to take a break, as long or as short, as you wish. Reading journal is pretty much the same as interacting with someone offline, if that person constantly cries to you about how miserable their life is, it'll wear you down too and feel helpless and then you become depressed yourself...that would not work right? :-)
Sorround yourself things that'll keep you happy or feeling the way you wants to feel, because when you're satisfied about your feelings, then you can be there for others too when you're ready or when you want to.
I don't take this entry wrong at all, I understand completely,as I, myself have not been actively reading. I have moments where I'd read consistently for weeks or couple months, then I dissapear without warning (at least for a little while) LOL...
Take care,
Gem :-)
well come play with me, we are happy here on the Porch these days!
Marti
Good for you! I think we (as individuals) should always be seeking joy and happiness. If one avenue seems to have lost its joy, then by all means, try a different road. You are entitled to do as you wish, and I support you in whatever you decide.
I will keep praying for you!
God bless-
Amanda
Sometimes you gotta step away. I've even depressed MYSELF!
Take your time, we'll all be here when you get back.
(You'll be amazed at what you can get done when the computer doesn't rule your life!)
Angel
I think you expressed your feelings very well. I can't see how anyone can be offended by what you have written as it was honest, truthful and thoughtful too.
You obviously need to take a break so just you 'go for it!'
I was just getting to know you but look forward to your return when you have refreshed your spirit.
Take care
Jeanie xxxx
{{{ Lyn }}} Enjoy your break....
be well,
Dawn
Lyn, I understand toataly where you are coming from.Nobody should think anyless of you for taking that well earned break. I know you have always had positive things to say in my journal. You are a caring person and it shows. Welcome back by the way. I was so sorry to read about your Daughters dog. Its so sad when something like that happens. I lost one of my dogs because a gas fitter left the gate open. My dog was Killed. I changed my gas company the same day.
love and hugs
Stay strong girl.
katie
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