Tuesday, January 30, 2007

Don't hate me because I'm beautiful!!

Good Evening Campers.

I was not going to do an entry about this but what the hell..I am keeping it real right?

Some people think I have got too big for my boots. That I have no business complaining about my life because I have it so easy. I agree I have a pretty good life. I am grateful..I list my five all the time..I  know there are others far worse off than me..you don't hear me complain very often. I try to keep a positive attitude. I do believe you could count on one hand the amount of times I have bitched in my journal. But excuse me. This IS my journal and I really did have a rough time of it last week. For all my joking etc my feelings were hurt. I tried to make light of it all but it was horrid and if it hadn't have been I would not have felt the need to "run away" Apparently it is bothering some people that I have been getting a lot of comments in my Journal..trust me I get a lot more but I delete the negative ones.  ;-)  I made a conscious effort to comment more myself... and like I have said before you reap what you sow.

Don't be a hater.

If you don't like what you see don't read me for God's sake.

Nuff said!

L

 

47 comments:

Anonymous said...

well i LOOOVEEE reading you!! I won't stop! I knowI don't comment often but I still looooveee your journal!
Jess

Anonymous said...

oh tell these ASSHOLES who are whining and jealous to go roll themselves in a pile of horse shit.

XO lj

Anonymous said...

BY GOLLY!!!! I cant imagine why anyone would leave negative comments in your journal...........POO on them!!!! I love every entry you do, and I hope you dont change a thing. If Im not mistaken I thought that was what having a journal was all about is your life and your thoughts..........have I been wrong all these years???
I am definately ready for the beach!!!!!
Hugs
Carrie

Anonymous said...

You GO, Girl! :D

Anonymous said...

oMG What is wrong with people? What gives them the right to say anything unbelievable..I think you are great and it took alot of guts to go and do what you did so good for you have a good night V

Anonymous said...

Stopping by to say hi!  I just noticed in your sidebar you  live in Florida....we just got orders to MacDill AFB and should be arriving there in late October.  SMall world.

Robin

Anonymous said...

Amen, sister!!  I don't know why people have to be so cruel, hurtful and downright negative to others!!   You said it...if you read, do so because you want to, not to criticize.  And for those who get lots of comments, it is because they comment to others!!!!!  Jealousy is so ugyl ;)
xoox ~Myra

Anonymous said...

I love that statement.......don't be a hater!!!  Linda

Anonymous said...

:::applauding::: not that you had to explain yourself... not to me anyway.. I love reading what you have to say..
hugs
d

Anonymous said...

i'm not sure why anyone would say anything bad...im still jealous that you had such a great night on your own.......I think it was great...it's good for those who are so well taken care of by the women in their lives to have their eyes opened......now i'm just wondering when i'll get up the courage to do that very thing..cuz I sure could use it.....

Anonymous said...

You go girl!!  You're right.  If people don't like what you write, they shouldn't read then.  These journals are ours, to write what we feel.  You don't need an excuse or a reason.
Missie
http://journals.aol.com/chat2missie/MissiesUpsideDownWorld/


Anonymous said...

What you wrote is what you felt was the thing to write...LOL...hey that is what my journal is for...hope the same for you...and well if I cannot say something positive...ain't gonna say nuttin at all...far as I am concerned...you did what you needed to do....ain't none of my business LOL...and none of anyone elses either...if they don't like it...tuff!!!!  LOL...hang in their sweetie....hugs from KY....Ora

Anonymous said...

I never thought that you were being ungreaful. I just know that sometimes it is hard, and we all blow our top. I do hope that you have a great day! we have a homecoming tomorrow!
Kelli
http://journals.aol.com/kamdghwmw/noonmom

Anonymous said...

I can't believe anyone would criticize what you did.  First, it's  YOUR life. Second, this is YOUR journal and you don't have to take their shit. LOL
Have an awesome Wednesday.
Hugs, Barb  

Anonymous said...

it's so funny what people have to complain about. I read a lot of journals and I do get a lot of comments. I love all my friends here. Sorry some people have to be rude.  Hugs to  you.

Anonymous said...

I don't get this........... I started a Blog as I thought it would be fun, ok? I thought it would be great to write about my life and read about others lives and what they get up to. Some are sad blogs I read, but it keeps things in perspective for me and makes me feel good about my life if I feel down and boy can ya feel down sometimes huh?
But WHY OH WHY would anyone want to leave nasty comments on anothers blog? This is the third time I have heard that this week, infact another blogger has had to close their currrent blog an go private because of people being nasty.
I have one thing to say to those nasties out there F*** YOU BUSTER! If ya don't like what you read P*** OFF and don't read!!!!
This blog here, Lyn's UK girl, is a great blog, I have never EVER warmed to someone so quick in my life!
What Lyn did she was entitled too, ok you may not agree with it, I did, but that's MY opinion, but what gives anyone the right to leave Nasty comments on anothers blog?
I say leave em on Lyn............. We your mates out here will answer them on your behalf, you don't worry girl, we'll do it for you!
BIG HUGS! xxxxxx

Anonymous said...

Lyn, you just keep keeping it real girl!  I'm with Thumper when he said, if you can't say something nice..then don't say nothing at all.  I just don't "get" negativity...what do people gain from it?  I, for one, enjoy reading all your thoughts and ponderings.  Keep up the good work!
Your biggest fan,
Marie
http://journals.aol.co.uk/mariealicejoan/MariesMuses/

Anonymous said...

Lyn , great entry, do'nt listen to the negative people, you are one awesome lady !!!!!!!!!! Hugs Lisa

Anonymous said...

Just left my comment on the explantion entry rather than here. I really am losing it!!!!!

Linda x.

http://journals.aol.co.uk/lindaggeorge/GeorgeMansions/

Anonymous said...

You got someone leaving negative comments??? You just let Mrs Soprano know who and I will tell Tony to take care of it.
Fuggetaboutit.

E.

Anonymous said...

Hello,
Oh so true and well said :). I have been in your boots a couple of times in my almost 3 years of journaling. It's like people forget the old saying: "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all." LOL I'm talking about comments. I will just never understand when someone doesn't agree with or like your entry, don't leave a comment! It's just that easy...lol.
I think your terrifice and always have. You are a very positive person and just like you said, it IS your journal :).
Huggers,
Gayla

Anonymous said...

you know I NEVER look at comments or how many. Heck I could not tell you what I average. that isnt important at all.

now as far as what happend last week I guess IM lost on that one since I just started reading you.......... but your right you do have the right to say what ever in YOUR jouranl. Im sorry some gave your negative comments I hate when those things happen. so hurtful on top of the hurt your feeling already. now Im courious????? what is going on. Why someone would feel th eneed to cut you down. from what you say it sounds more like jealousy

Anonymous said...

You tell 'em. It's your blog, you write whatever you want. B. x

Anonymous said...

You should be able to write whatever you want on your journal and if people don't like it they should bugger off and read Mills and Boon or some other trash! Keep up the good work.
love
Debbie

Anonymous said...

I agree with all you say here ,you were hurt and acted on it ,good for you the majority ,ie your friends admired you and supported you ,and you got a result ..love Jan xx

Anonymous said...

Lyn I have been have been reading  of your other entries ~ had a spot of bother with my computer ~ but trying to catch up~ as you say if people don't like what they read "Dont read it" simple as that  glad everything is sorted now hope you are OK ~ Ally x

Anonymous said...

Great on the positive attitude...and yes, it is your journal...tell it like it is, I say!  Great entry...hugs,
Joyce

Anonymous said...

You tell 'em!  Why do people feel the need to rain on someone else's parade?!  Like you said, if they don't like what they see click the x.  Sorry you are having a tough time with readers.
Traci

Anonymous said...

You go girl!  Never let anyone get you down.  Have a great day and keep smiling.

Britt

Anonymous said...

Dont let anyone tell you how to live your life or write in your own journal.
if they dont like you than why are they here?!
i hope you have a good day, has it warmed up there???
ttyl
em

Anonymous said...

What goes on in your life is recorded in YOUR JOURNAL.Nobody as the right to sit there and tell you what to type or what to do in YOUR LIFE. I thought last week was hard on you, you needed support not ridiculed. I happen to think you did right and i know you and your family will be laughing about your runaway for years to come.
love and hugs
katie

Anonymous said...

It's YOUR journal!  Why is it that people think they have the God given right to be obnoxious to someone, just because that person has a journal?  I had a similar thing happen to me this summer.  Horrid comments from people that knew nothing about me!  You needed to do what you did and it works for you and your family.  Ignore the assholes of the world!

Hugs,
Susie
http://journals.aol.co.uk/susanebunn/ItAllStartsAfter50/

Anonymous said...

Well said ~ your journal is for what you want to write not what others want to hear :)

Jenny

http://journals.aol.co.uk/jmoqueen/MyLife

Anonymous said...

nicely said!!!

Anonymous said...

Thank you for leaving a message on my journal.  I have enjoyed reading your entries, especially the escape entry!  I love your style of writing  - I'm imagining a British accent when I read it.  :-)  Don't worry about the negative comments.  Of course, that's easier said than done.  They're just jealous! - Stephanie

Anonymous said...

How sad that people feel it is acceptable to act this way. What ever happened to :if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all???
I totally could sympathize with you and your situation the other day: I have felt the same as you did many many times...too many to even count! Just ignore these people; they mean nothing anyway. don't forget my motto: be who you are and say what you feel b/c those who mind DON'T MATTER! and those who matter DON'T MIND!!!
Maria
http://journals.aol.com/bobbysgirl8584/ThoseWhoMatterDontMind/

Anonymous said...

Your blog, your life and I love reading about it!  How dare anyone leave negative comments... ugh.   I had that happen, but only 2 times... I deleted them and never looked back.

Hang in there!

be well,
Dawn

Anonymous said...

Oy. This totally brings back terrible memories. I'm glad you spoke up honey. Good work! And for what it's worth, those who have too much time on their hands and spend it all being hateful can just bugger off. Love you.

Anonymous said...

theres just no need for it is there?, dont people realise they are reading a journal which is a persons own thoughts and feelings??what a bunch of donuts!Beckie.xx

Anonymous said...

It's your journal.  The End. :)
Gillie

Anonymous said...

sorry you have gotten some rotten people leaving remarks, I hope you don't let them bother you, cause for every one hater you have about another handfull of ones who love ya.  This is your spot to do with what you want, we have all heard if you can't say anything nice not to say anything at all, well some people these days need to learn the rules to real life, and have a little more compassion, and if not then they need to shut the fluck up and move on.  
Take care girl and keep it real, I for one like it like that.....
MISSY

Anonymous said...

LOL...ignore the catty beeches. Bam

Anonymous said...

All I can say is Lyn, You be and do as you are, YOUR journal, your words. I'm gonna be reading whatever you have to say sweetie :) Like you say; If 'they' don't like what they see, then they have the choice not to read it!

Take care,

Millie :)

Anonymous said...

This is your journal and with that in mind you write what you want.
Hang in there!

Hugs,
Gretchen

Anonymous said...

I love ya....Yeah the "haters" suck...really. why leave crappy comments in someone else's journal....I don't get it. If you don't like it, don't read it....
Yeah, I am still thinking of running away for an evening...especially with the superbowl party coming....man  what did i get myself into?
Michele

Anonymous said...

Cooeeh Lynn, don't know who has said something rotten to you but I think good on you for your life and lifestyle and if anyone is jealous, tough!  What a blimming cheek they have!  Hmmm, am a bit jealous about your pool though and the fact you can go to Wallmarts when you want, ha ha!  Enjoy your life and don't let the sad gits get you down.  Hugs always.  Terry x

Anonymous said...

Oh there always has to be someone who doesn't like what other people have to say ....FGS.....if you dont like it DONT READ IT!!!!
Hell.....there is a delete button you know.

I have seen too many people leaving JLand because of these 'haters' .....obviously they have no life of their own and are intent on spoiling the lives of others.

Lyn.....its your journal.......write what you want

hugs
Jayne