Morning campers.
I did do an entry yesterday and where it went I have no idea and at this point I don't really care. I am beyond pissed off with my son and his so called friends. I was asleep last night and woke up to hear my daughter yelling. I go out in the living room to find out her rings are missing from the bathroom where she just took them off and there were 2 girls who had just used the bathroom. They are the girlfriends of Ryan's friends. I did not know they were even here. I guess they were outside talking and asked to come in to use the bathroom. Well me and my daughter know one of these girls has the ring. Niether one will fess up. The smallest one is trying to leave out the front door..I was yelling at her to give the ring up..the other girl who I know better and don't think would do it is getting all hysterical..we make the girls turn out their pockets of course nothing but we know the ring is there somewhere..my daughter is getting ready to lay into the girl..I lost my temper and cussed the girl out..she ran out the door..I grabbed her and tried to stop her...then the boys get involved...my son goes apeshit..can't believe this is happening to him again.. to him?? excuse me!! I threw his arse in his room and told him to stay there.. the boys are getting all riled up...I told them if I do not have the ring back in my pocession today I am turning them all over to the detective...boys and girls...I am hoping that they have the sense to give the rings back..one was a cheapy but the other was a diamond and that's the one Rachel is freaking out about and I don't blame her.... little do they know I am giving their names to the detective anyway but I am trying to get the ring back first..the other break in was never proven but this time I was home and only 2 people went in that bathroom so I am not dropping it. My son is grounded. he cannot keep subjecting us to this. I feel so bad for Rachel... she is good to Ryan and his friends...she lost all her jewelry before..this was all she had left...things are going to change around here...if I have to send Ryan away somewhere I will...I can't live like this anymore....
Vent over.
It was my brothers birthday yesterday. Happy birthday Martin! I tried calling him but he was out..the time difference makes it hard sometimes.
Hubby will be home for 2 days on the 29th ;-) he got the book I sent him. Can't wait to see him. Then we he goes back only about 5 weeks till he is home for good.
Well I don't have a whole lot to say today.. I am not feeling very good about myself right now...I don't know where I went wrong with this boy but it it is never too late to change and I hope I get get his life back on track....I feel like I have failed somehow.. I am fed up, tired, lonely and just plain old sad.
L
14 comments:
Aw Lyn dont beat yourself up. Sometimes when kids get with the wrong crowd it doesnt matter you raised them. Im telling you from personal experience. I really hope Rachel gets her rings back, but I would turn them in to the detective too. Have a good day, and Im glad you will get to see hubby soon!!
hugs
Carrie
I would have been mad too ,I hope Rachel gets her ring back,thankgoodness Lester will soon be home ,.,.,Jan xx
You have not done anything wrong....he is male and he is a teenager.....maybe he needs to talk to someone professional who he feels is neutral. You are a good mom and your daughter needed someone there to stand up for her. I am SO sorry this happened! My son is 14 and will be the death of me. His mouth is out of this world.
LOVE YOU,
lisa jo
PS- I hope you get the rings back.
Oh Lyn, please don`t blame yourself, there is nothing wrong with Ryan other than being a teenage boy. We`ve all been there with our own, trust me, it wasn`t fun at times. I have a feeling you will get the rings back somehow, I`m sure the girl responsible doesn`t want the police involved.
Hugs
Sandra xxxx
Wow. Sure hope your daughter gets her rings back, tha'ts just wrong....kids today have no respect for others.
Take care
Ellen
I am so sorry to hear about all this with your kids and your sons friends. I hope that whoever has the ring has the good sense to return it to your daughter. You should not blame yourself for anything with your son or his friends; they are responsible for their own actions. You can only hope they make the right decisions. I know things will get better for all of you.
Maria
Oh Lyn. I'm so sorry. I don't have any words that will make it better. I wish I did. All I can tell you is what my therapist has told me over and over and over about my Erica.
You do the best you can. There comes a time when your best is trumped by your child's worst and it's time to make them face responsibility.
It is hard as hell to do my friend. I struggle with it all the time. My oldest daughter is her own person and has been since day one. Ryan is his own person as well. You have done a good job as his mom honey. He is at the age where he's making lots of his own choices now and it's not always a successful experience.
I understand the self doubt however YOU ARE A FABULOUS MOM!
I love you sweetie.
Oh Lyn when teenage boys get in with the wrong crowd ~ you never know what his "friends" will take when they visit your home ~ I do hope Rachel gets her rings back ~ I would definitely pass all their information on the the detectives ~ they sound like they need taking in hand ~ and taught a lesson ~ will be glad when Lester is home for good ~ Ally
Been there, done it, got the tee shirt.
I can't go into too much detail but I was mortified by the amount of police activity we had here. Most of it was down to my daughter's boyfriend, who I found later was a heroin addict but he roped my baby son into his shit life as well.
Neither of my children were bad, they just got involved with the wrong people and I have to admit I even liked this boy.
Both my kids are so straight now and so sorted but I have to tell you, it is going to be bloody hard getting him safely through the next few years and the only way you will do that is to be constantly on his case but keep alternating it with love and bribery.
Linda x.
I hate that when I lose an entry!! Sorry to hear about son's friends. I hope Rachel gets her jewelry back. Hugs,
Lisa
(((((((Lyn)))))))
I'm sorry you guys are going through this. I hope that the girl who took the rings will give them back without detectives having to get them back. I'm praying for you as you deal with Ryan.
I'm so sorry you had to go thru that. And I feel bad for your daughter having her jewelry stolen right out of the bathroom. I sure hope the rings some how turn up. Good Luck
Missie
I sure hope your daughter gets her rings back. You have a lot going on with Ryan. I hope things get better. Oh teenagers they are so much fun.
Wow, pretty intense. Your latest entry caught my interest because we had similar problems with my step daughters, so I had to backtrack my way here. I'm going to have to go through your journal. But I wouldn't bet on it being the last time. Ours ended up sneaking their friends in after we re asleep. Keep an eye out.
Fred
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