Wednesday, January 7, 2009

RIP

Jen's Mum succumbed to her many illnesses Monday night...I was waiting for the Obituary to post it...as you know I went to visit her a lot with Jen..as much as everyone is saddened by her passing I am glad she is no longer suffering...good night God Bless Mum (she liked me calling her Mum)



Gloria Lorraine Tompkins
Gloria Lorraine Tompkins Gloria Lorraine Tompkins, 75, died Monday, January 5, 2009, at Big Bend Hospice after a long illness. The service will be at 2 p.m. EST Monday, January 12, at Bevis Funeral Home (850-385-2193, www.bevisfh.com ) in Tallahassee, Florida, with burial at Roselawn Cemetery. Family will receive friends from 1 p.m. until the service at the funeral home. She was born in Rochester, New Hampshire, and raised as a child in Portland, Maine. Lorraine has lived in Tallahassee for the past 37 years with her husband, Hobart Tompkins. They just celebrated their 37th wedding anniversary. Lorraine was a real estate agent in Tallahassee for 28 years. She loved working with people and helping them find the "home" of their dreams. Lorraine was very family oriented, her life revolved around her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She has touched the lives of many and will be sadly missed by her family and friends. She is survived by her husband, Hobart Tompkins, Jr.; her son, Kerry Farmer of Harwich Mass.; her daughter, Lee Ann Trapp (and husband Robbie) of Marstons Mills, Mass.; a son, Greg Farmer (and wife Colleen) of Cotuit, Mass.; a daughter, Jennifer Callahan (and husband David) of Green Cove Springs, Fla.; her sister-in-law, Ginny McKean (and husband Jim); eight grandchildren and three great-grandchildren; and other loving nieces and nephews

My entry in her guestbook:


My sincere condolences Jen...you know that I understand completely the pain you are feeling right now but please know that it does get easier and one day you will find comfort in your memories...your Mum was one of a kind and it was a pleasure getting to know her.... I have fond memories of our visits to see her..especially driving all over town for hours looking for that darn Ruby Tuesdays!! May she rest in peace .. I like to think she's up there with my own Mum...please pass my condolences along to Hobie..and give him a kiss on the cheek from "his" Lynda xx

Lynda Hatfield (Orange Park, FL) Contact me

26 comments:

Amelia said...

It's never easy to loose someone. That was a sweet comment you left in Jenn's guest book. I'm sure it was comforting during such a hard time.

*M*

sober white women said...

Jen, may you be carried in your time of grief. Thanks Lyn for making me aware of this.
Kelli

Leslie said...

Oh hun im so sorry for your friends loss :( I will be praying for her & her family thru this tough time. What you wrote to her was comforting and beautiful. She is lucky to have you to help her thru this.
ttys hun. Leslie

Happy Being Me said...

Your a thoughtful friend. Sorry to hear of your loss. Take care

Kath said...

Please accept my condolances and may perpetual light shine upon your Dear Friends Mum Lyn.My thoughts are with you all at this sad time.Kind comforting words from a lovely gal.Take Care God Bless Kath

Bethe said...

So sorry sweetie. Sounds like you got very close.Loved what you wrote though. Jen will treasure your words.

hugs, Bethe

Marie Rayner said...

Sorry to hear of your friend's loss Lyn. My heart and prayers go out to her. I am sure that good friends like you help a great deal.

Jan said...

So sorry to hear this Lyn you will miss her ,she sounds quite a Lady ..love Jan xx

Jeannette said...

So sorry to hear about this my friend but, as you say, she is no longer suffering. How caring of you to do this posting.

Lisa said...

I'm so sorry to hear about the pasing of your friend. I thought your entry was beautiful and loving.
Lisa

lisa said...

you left a lovely and heartfelt note...so sorry for your loss of a friend. XXOOO

Missie said...

I'm so sorry!

Chrissie a.k.a. HoneyB said...

So sorry for their loss. May she rest in peace now.
Take care, Chrissie

Terri said...

So very sorry...

Keeping everyone in my prayers

Hugs
Terri

Heather said...

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your friends mother. Loss is always hard but I think it must be especially so when it comes to losing ones mother. My heart goes out to her and you as you were quite close with her as well.

xoxo, Heather

Joann said...

I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend's mother, and my condolensces to Jen, also. I'm glad that you have wonderful memories of her, and I hope they are a comfort to Jen.

Cathy said...

Have a wondrous journey Gloria, and in your next step through life as you evolve more and more, look to those who are still bound to this planet and remember you lovingly.

Jane Thompson said...

So sorry to hear about your friends Mum - but what a lovely entry about her.

Jen is lucky to have such a wonderful and supportive friend as you Lyn.

Stephanie said...

I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. It sounds like she had a wonderful full life and was loved by many.

Hollie said...

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Allison said...

It's always sad to lose someone that was so nice and meant a lot to you. She is in a place away from pain and illness now. Hope you have a good weekend. Luv ya!

Saltydawg said...

It's good you called her mum, you had that special bond. I have that with one of my mates mother.
Hey, guess what, the suns shining here today.
Gaz xx

Robin said...

Raised in Portland, Maine, eh.

Well, condolences to Jen, her family, and for you as well. I'm glad you could be of assist during everything, and not just after the fact. What you've done is important.

RIP indeed. Blessings to all.

friedmsw said...

My sincere condolences to you in the loss of your friend. No matter how much someone is suffering, it is always hard to lose a loved one. I am glad that she was with a hospice at this end.

Angie said...

Hi Lyn! Pardon me for not commenting aqs often as I would like but I do read. It's just a case of keeping up with everyone. I do like your new set-up and it's nice to see the pics of you in front of the camera for a change. I never get bored of people's pics because I am basically a nosey parker at heart!
love, Angie, xx

Amanda said...

((((((((((((HUGSTOYOU))))))))))))))))My thought go out to you and your friend loosing Her Mum.That wa a beatiful cooment you left.