
25 Years ago today True Beauty made her way into the world at 7.41 am. I had feared the pain of childbirth and thought that it was going to be way worse than it was and therefore did not go to the hospital till rather late for a first timer..I was already 8 cm dilated! However once they told me that I started to panic... I did get an epidural and she came screaming into the world 4 hours later...not without me tearing very badly and having 80 stitches...ouch! She was born at Portsmouth Naval hospital in Virginia and it was a horrible place. I laid in dirty sheets for an entire shift as they had had a shift change and they each thought the other shift had changed me... the bathroom had no light bulb! back then I was a timid little thing and wouldn't dare make a scene...hubby did get things taken care of though but it took ages...he was a nothing muffin back then...LOL...True Beauty was a fussy little thing..I tried to breast feed but was unsuccessful.. I got Mastitis but didn't know it.. my boobs were rock solid with red lines running up them and I had a fever of 102.. a quick trip to the ER and I was treated for infection and True Beauty got some formula and finally stopped crying after 3 days straight....a special thing happened the day she was born..3000 miles away her great grandfather..hubby's gramp..was lying in his hospital bed...he sat up the morning she was born and said who is that beautiful little girl sitting on the end of the bed?? that same afternoon he died..they always say one life leaves as another begins... true beauty was the first grandchild on my side of the family and the first granddaughter on hubby's side so she was welcomed with open arms...she has been an absolute joy to us . I can honestly say that apart from a few teenage moments we have not had an ounce of trouble from her.. she brings joy to all that are around her and is as beautiful on the inside as she is the out.. I am so happy that her and I have become the kind of Mother and Daughter that I so longed for growing up...we are friends now..my job is done of raising her and now we get to enjoy a whole new relationship..one of love and encouragement and friendship....Happy Birthday to my one and only daughter who showed me what unconditional love is and fulfilled my dreams beyond measure...I love you Rachel Lyn
29 comments:
Happy Birthday to your daughter. How grand that the two of you have each other and that you do get on so well together. That is a blessing. I have one daughter and know how much she means to me so I can relate to your feelings. Have a fun day celebrating! I always think we moms have rights on celebrating our children's births for sure!
"8 cm dilated"... You were a BRAVE soul. What a difficult time you had... But a perfect little girl emerged. It's GREAT to hear what GOOD friends you are at this point in your life. HAPPY BIRTHDAY to Rachel and her PROUD mom. ENJOY! ENJOY!
Happy birthday to your lovely Rachel! Where does the time go? My eldest is 17 this year and John's eldest is 22 this month! Yikes!!! Awwwww they stil kids to us mums though arent they! xxxxxxx
How lucky you are to have such a lovely Daughter, always wanted a Girl, but wasn't to be.
Many Happy Returns Rachel.
Aileen...X
What a beautiful tribute to your daughter. Happy Birthday Rachel
Sweet entry for a beautiful girl--she'll always be your baby. :)
Julie :)
Happy 25th Birthday Rachel ~ Lyn your Daughter is a true beauty and I know how proud of her you are ~ Ally x
Happy birthday to Rachel! She is beautiful. Oh,and congrats to you on becoming a mommy those years ago today.
Wonderful tribute to you and your daughter. Happy 'birthday' to you both.
Very pretty young lady....happy birthday to her!
Melanie
Happy Birthday to your daughter. What a lovely post.
I hope your daughter had a great birthday! She's such a beautiful young woman, but you already knew that!LOL
Well Happy BIrthday to Rachel. Glad that you'd blog. Have a good week. Nancy
She is a beautiful woman ! Good job !
Happy Birthday Rachel ,what a lovely tribute to a beautiful young woman ,she is a credit to you, no wonder you are proud of her ..love Jan xx
That is so beatiful Lyn!I hope to be able to say the same about Hannah in a few years when we are over the teenage years! Happy Birthday to your girl - she surely is stunner!...Gets it from her mum!!!...xxx
Happy Birthday to Rachel !!!!!!! Hugs Lisa
I seem to have been dipping into your Rachael's birthdays for ever........and STILL no bit of birthday cake!
What a beautiful tribute to a lovely young woman. (She and I share a birthday.)
Happy Birthday To Rachel!!
Such a lovely entry! It's always nice to reach this new chapter with our daughters.
Sheri
Happy birthday to your daughter. She's a lovely young woman.
Jimmy
Hi hun,happy birthday to your beautiful daughter.That was a lovley entry and so moving,special relationships are so rare Im glad its treasured.xxxxxxxxxxxx zoe xxxxxxxxx
A definite tear jerker...children change our lives in such profound ways. It's a priceless gift to have such a beautiful relationship with your daughter...I hope for the same with my little girl. I hope she had a memorable birthday.
Lynn,
That was a very nice post of your daughters happy birthday story. And your right I only posted three times in a year.I will comment to once or twice amonth and do more commenting,
Take Care
John
Happy happy birthday to Rachel...and many many more blessed years of happiness to you and the family too...and Lyn..you don't do anything the easy wasy huh??? naaa...didn't think so...but glad all turned out well...God Bless...hugs from Ora in KY
Sorry I am a week late! You have a beautiful daughter, wish her belated Happy Birthday from.
Happy Birthday Rachel!!! (that was my mom's name and a name I've always loved)
As for the military hospitals - your experience with the dirty sheets reminded me of when my dad was in the hospital with NO sheets, laying on a sticky plastic mattress in 100 degree temps. I hope the military hospitals have improved.
Happy Belated Birthday Wishes to your beloved daughter! that is quite a journey indeed!
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natalie
Rachel looks so beautiful on the picture! and thank you so much for that story about how her grandmother saw her at the end of her bed! That is so sweet!
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