ME AGAIN...
Good Evening Campers!! I appreciate your support of my last post..it has been and continues to be a living nightmare..my FIL's wife continues to slander my name to her family..blames me for everything...says I made a mountain out of a molehill..etc etc...well say what you want ducky but at least one other person agreed with me because you were turned over to social services!! I believe it was someone at the hospital because they had taken photos of my FIL's bedsore when he was in the hospital previous to the dog mauling.. it was significantly larger this time...that's because no one has been taking care of it..my FIL's wife has refused all care for my FIL except for what Hospice provides and they only treat his Primary complaint which is the end stage COPD..so his diabetes..his high blood pressure..his anemia..and his bed sores have not been treated... On a positive note my FIL now has Home health dressing his bed sore and his foot wound..the hospice nurse caring for his COPD and now a new private nurse who is there to do whatever needs to be done..I met her today and almost cried with relief...this past weekend my FIL's wife put a padlock on the gate so I can no longer "walk in whenever I feel like it"...we always have just walked in...but now it's a problem...all of this is just a dig at me..but today meeting the new nurse and seeing that my FIL is finally getting the care he deserves makes all I have been going through worthwhile..and hubby has a conference here in town next week and will be home for 6 days..I cannot wait to see him and just have someone hold me .. I am not going to lie the past few weeks have taken their toll on me..I felt myself starting to go to that dark place..the one where I hide under a rock...I don't want to go there..I have been staying busy..doing things that make me happy..puttering around my garden..reading by the pool..watching good movies..drinking wine..chatting with my girlfriends..I even gave someone my resume and have a job interview tomorrow..woo hoo! It's time to take my life back...if I get this job it will be a huge change in my life...but I'm ready..I have way too much time on my hands at the moment ..to be honest I've been bored for a while but just didn't know what I wanted to do...this new job opportunity sounds just what I need...I don't want to jinx it so I won't tell you what it is but if i get it you'll know!! ;-)That's about it..by the way my 4 year blog anniversary was April 17th... ;-)L xx
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Dear Lyn, wish I was near enough to give you a ((Hug))
Not a good year for either of us,and thank you for your kind words today
Take care
Aileen...X
Happy Bloggiversary! Thank God at least SOMEONE is trying to make your FiL comfortable. Does he get all the meds he needs for his various other conditions?
Hope your job interview goes well.
Happy Bloggersary indeed..LOL. Good to see you blogging Sorry to hear about your FIL.. >>HUGS2U<< Nancy
Glad to hear you are hanging in there and doing some positive things too. Don't let it get you down at all as you did what needed done. Now you know he is in good hands you can do what is needed for yourself. How great you hubby is going to be home. I know you will appreciate having him there . I hope things turn out for the best with your interview tomorrow.
I'm glad to hear that your FIL is finally going to get the care he needs and deserves.
That woman should be ashamed of herself..
I hope now you can relax a little and as you said, take your life back.
Good luck on the job interview:)
Sheri
I am so glad that your FIL is receiving better care. I hope you get that new job !
Happy Blogiversary !
Oh Lyn, a belated Happy Bloggiversary!!! Glad to see that things are starting to improve for your FIL, and that you will be able to see your husband soon, if only for a short! How wonderful. I send love and hugs!! xxoo
I am so glad that your FIL is receiving the care he so deserves ~ I have not been on my computer much just lately so am behind with reading ~ I hope you get that job ~ and Great news to know you will soon be seeing Hubby ~ Ally x
A very happy aniversary to your blog ,I am pleased your husband is to come home soon ,I am sure he appreciates what you have done for his Dad ,in spite of what his silly wife is saying to get herself off the hook ,...love Jan xx
I truly THANK GOD you're there to fight for your FIL and that your hubby will be home for a few days. No doubt you need him home for support and a much needed break. I hope the interview goes great.
Happy Blogiversary! I'm glad to hear your FIL is going to get the care he needs. You did a good thing standing up for him since he couldn't do it himself.
Hi Lyn,
Sorry to hear you've been a little down lately, and with what's been happening, I'm not surprised.
Hopefully though the worst is over now. Hubby's coming home, a new job in the offing and FIL getting the treatment he needs. Stay positive Missus.
B. x
Glad you see you on here. Good for whoever turned in your mil. Poor man. Sending blessings your way. Glad hubby will be home for a bit. That'll take the edge off!
Glad your hubby will be home for a few days to take some of the burden off of you. So happy your FIL is getting the care he deserves. Someone in the hospital was very observant.
Good luck with the job interview!
First of all... CONGRATULATIONS on the BLOG Anniversary. I've been reading you for at least two or three years. Secondly, thank god your FIL is getting the care he needs. SHAME on your MIL for treating him and you, the way she does. Third, get that much needed hug from your hubby, when he comes home, however briefly. And last but not least... be sure and take care of you. You deserve it. Hope a job comes along you'll like. Meanwhile, keep reading.
Awwwww Im glad you is taking care of you and giving yourself something to look forward to. Good luck with that! And, happy blogaversary! LOL xxxxx
Lyn, I pray your day is a blessed one. I know you have been through so much with your FIL and his wife. I have been thinking of all of you since I read your last post. I am so happy that your FIL is being properly cared for. I am happy that someone called his wife out on this. Just remember you reap what you sow and I believe that 100%. I am sorry to hear that she has gone through another measure to make your life stressed..a padlock..really? But I know you'll figure away around that :).
I am so excited to hear about your job interview!! There going to love you :). Late congratulations on your blog anniversary :).
HUGS~Donna
Oh Lyn - Im just catching up with my blogs and Im so sorry yo
u have had such a rough time. Just remember you did the right thing - and enjoy your time with hubby next week.
Much love
Jane
xxxx
Lyn, you are an amazingly strong woman. Your father in law, husband, and whole family are very lucky to have you...no matter what, you've got their back. I'm sorry for all that you have gone through just to have your FIL die with dignity and get the care he deserves. I'm so glad he is finally being cared for in the manner in which every human being deserves.
Good luck with the possible new job!! I can't wait to hear about what it is.
I'm so sorry for all you have been & are continueing to go through. Sending prayers for your FIL. Good luck with the job interview!
Congrats on the blog anniversary!!
I'm going to read your last post, it sounds like a DOOZY!! But it sounds like it's all worked out for the best!! I'm very glad that your FIL is in good hands, now.
Dear Lyn,
It would have been so great to have met you when we came to Florida....but as you might know that trip was cancelled and I am now back in ALBERTA, Canada awaiting a date for surgery.
I have good days and bad...Trying to learn how to breathe and relax as I get uptight so very easily.
WHY or WHY can I not totally fall into the arms of Jesus and know He is holding me up?
Blessings,
ALBERTA Lori
In my passing, I have seen so much of this kind of thing and it usually stems from the one who should care the most and doesn't. May he finally have the peace of knowing he'll be in good hands.
Happy Blogiversary to you my friend!
Take care of you and yours always,
Katie
Has anyone heard from Lyn? I have been looking for up dates and she's no where to be found. I know her last entry-she talked about the black hole. So I am worried about her. If you hear from her please send me a message through my journal. Thank.
Hugs and Blessings to all.
Donna
Hey girl...been awhile...did you get the job you wanted...is hubby hme...FIL is doing ok...and you..??? know you are busy...but a few words to let me know all is well in your world...ok...ok??? LOL...sure hope so...you are one splecial lady....to me anyway!!! hugs and God Bless...Ora
Wow... you have been through so much ... I am so glad you have some time with hubby ... and a great attitude towards life... you are in my thoughts and prayers!
Lisa in Kentucky
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